Yesterday we discussed four mistkaes men make when texting women that totally scare off or repel a girl who was previosly interested..
Let’s face it… texting women can be downright confusing…
(What to write, what did her last text mean, how long should I wait to text her again, Is she ignoring my texts?)
The worst part is when the girl stops responding or just seems to dissapear.. you never quite know why…
Chances are it can be rooted down to one of these mistakes…
Even though all of these mistakes are subtle… they have a powerful ability to kill attraction quickly.
So let’s get into it.
Mistake #5: Going for the Meetup without Sparking Emotion
Here is another hard, cold fact. If you ask a woman to hang out, without first sparking and emotion.. she will almost always turn you down.
Because all of the positive emotions she felt when she was with you has dwindled.
And the thought of getting dressed up, and going to meet a guy she barely knows (and the potential you’ll turn out to be a creep or just akward) is not worth the effort.
Logically she can easily talk herself out of it.
Which is why you MUST engage her on an emotional level first.
It is MUCH easier to get a “yes” out of a woman once you’ve sparked a positive emotion.
The two best ways to do this are with flirting or humor.
Here’s an important concept: She is NOT going to remember all your good qualities. So it’s your JOB to remind her.
Mistake #6: Becoming too “Predictable”
Lets say that you’ve now succeeded in getting up a date with a girl. You may think you’re home free when it comes to texting, but there’s still some things you need to keep in mind to ensure you CONTINUE to see your girls.
First, you never want to fall into predictable patterns. Lots of guys use the same jokes, same questions, and same texts over and over. While it may be easier to fall into “complacency” with a woman you’re dating, don’t do it!
Instead, break things up with some spicy ever once in a while. Tell her you have a “surprise” to show her later. Tell her something reminded you of her, but don’t tell her what it is right away. Ask her to send you a funny picture of something (or send her a funny picture of something).
Keep her guessing what your text will be and you’ll keep her interested in you. Moreover, keeping the “spark” of a relationship alive is very important when it comes to creating a great sex life.
As long as you don’t become ultra predictable, you should have your girl texting YOU asking YOU when you’re available to hang out.
Mistake #7: Thinking She’s Different
I have stressed over and over again “Never tell a girl how you feel about her over text”…
Yet, day after day I get emails from students telling me a story about how they confessed their feelings to a girl over text…
And every time- they scare the girl away.
In your mind, you’re going to try to convince yourself that “She is different.”
Or that “It won’t work on her”
But the minute you tell yourself ‘she’s different’ you are on the road to losing her…
Guys continually do things like:
– Texting her too much
– Paying her gushing compliments over text
– Not asking her to hang out because you’re scared…
And time and time again they’ll face the same consequences as all the other guys have…
She’s not different. And if anytime you start thinkingshe is pull out this email and re-read it.
So now that you know the big mistakes you need to avoid its time formulate a solid game plan.
In this video you’re going to learn how to turn your phone into a magnet… by using a specific sequence of texts called: The Key Lock Sequence.
Some of the things you’ll learn:
– How to captilize on attraction before it fades
– The single biggest ingredient for capturing her attention
– 3 specific types of texts you need to send (in order) to turn her on and get her anxious to meet up.